: Name: ~dreamer~; Location: Hong Kong

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Dance like no one is watching...

...love like you'll never be hurt...

...sing like no one is listening...

...live like it's heaven on earth.

Life is beautiful!

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~~new bikini :)~~
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plane ticket to manila
carebear stuffed toy
~~big black bag~~

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Sunday, September 23, 2007

i'm a fag hag and lovin' it.

i spent my early saturday morning with my gay friends. we were at lawrence's place to celebrate kuya rye's birthday. there were five of us and i was the only girl there. even so, i didn't even feel a bit left out. why? because i'm a fag hag (for definition, click here). i've been one since my college days.

whatever country i am in, whichever group of friends i go with, there's always a gay man in the group who i become very close with. even the gay guys at work become my friends instantly. i love their company especially because they are the men who can be completely honest with you. they won't be shy to tell you if you looked horrendous and you won't feel offended, instead, you take it as a constructive criticism. and they also won't be shy to tell you when you look beautiful.

another reason why i love my gay friends is because they still know how to respect a woman. with simple gestures like opening the door for me, or offering me their seats, gays still know how to treat a lady with respect (at least the ones i know).

they are my favorite shopping buddies because they are the experts in fashion trends. they are my favorite partying buddies because they definitely know how to have fun. and i also run to them for advice when it comes to love. because they'll speak to you in all honesty, tell you when you're already being stupid and it's time to let go. this is not true for all gays though, i'm only talking about MY gay friends.

my life wouldn't be as fun and colorful as it is now if i didn't have them in it. and my next boyfriend should be as comfortable as i am around them for i don't plan on turning away from being a fag hag, ever.

- posted by ~dreamer~ @ 10:14 PM

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cant_u_read said...: AMEN!; 12:06 AM

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